Don't afraid to be yourself

 I want to give a lesson to those who have stopped in life due to some reason. We all have mishaps in our lives that pull us down and break us as well. Then we feel like we are bad, luckless, and start hating ourselves and other people as well. We lock ourselves at home. We go into despair. Life becomes hell. The demand for death rises.

But today I am addressing every broken heart, loser, and tired one. Ponder on these points and start your new life journey. 

Recognize yourself: 

First of all, get to know yourself.  Who are you? What is your purpose? Why did ALLAH send you here? Nothing present on the earth is a burden or without any purpose, not even a single tree, a single mountain, or a moth. So how you can aimless. Go out in search of yourself. Look into your heart in prostration.

When you crave to know yourself, ALLAH will set your motive in your heart. Because ALLAH helps those, who help themselves. Don't compare yourself to others. Don't try to be like anyone else that has already been taken. If you require stimulation, look at the ones above. 

And if you are feeling inferior, look at the ones below. If you don't have a car, then someone doesn't have a bicycle. You don't have a big house. Someone is sleeping on the sidewalk. You don't have pizza burgers to eat. Someone is eating from the trash. If You have to compare, then do it in the same way.

Value yourself:

When you know yourself, you'll value yourself. Work on yourself. Upgrade yourself.  Learn new skills. Future is not of degrees, it's of skills. Improve yourself. Never allow anyone to humiliate you. Never allow anyone to hurt you. You have to build a strong and sound boundary around you. And don't let anyone cross this limit. Further, learn to say 'no' in life. 

So that you can refuse anyone if he wants to do something against your will or take advantage of your compulsion. You should say no to others. So, you can say yes to yourself. 

Accept Yourself:

Accept yourself as you are. Whether you are very short or tall, black in color, etc. Accept yourself as it is. Then People will accept you too. People mock you when you don't admit yourself. You should accept yourself to the extent that when someone makes fun of you for your shortcomings, you can keep your head high with confidence that he began to think that he has said something wrong. 

Forgive Yourself:

It's ok, you made the wrong decisions in your life. Well, you didn't recognize the good guys. It's alright, you didn't become a doctor or an engineer. Please forgive yourself now. Forgiveness from others demands that you forgive yourself at first. Leave every regret behind and move on. No one will come to drain you out of your problems. But you have to pull yourself out. Be your own savior.  

Love Yourself: 

Respect yourself. Everyone will disrespect you until you respect yourself. So, love yourself. You have to stand in front of others, not to fall. So embrace yourself. When you learn to value yourself, you can pass it on to others.

Remember, you are not a victim. You are a fighter. You will fight with your troubles, sorrows, and hardships. Don't forget to recognize yourself. Your identity is not your family,  parents, or siblings. Rather You are your own identity.  So don't be afraid to be yourself.